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Post by sok on Mar 1, 2015 12:56:25 GMT
You must realise how comments like "China is the best place for him....and if I ever find out who he is....the safest" can be taken as threats of violence, right?
Yes, there are insults on both sites, but from my point of view there are far more insulting comments made on this site than CL, which when considering the traffic the two sites attract, is quite the achievement, as an example I'd guess around 50% of Royston's posts are insulting. You allow a member to mockingly use a picture on BH as his avatar. If someone decided to use a picture of you on a forum, I assume you'd quite rightly be pissed off.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 13:16:14 GMT
You must realise how comments like "China is the best place for him....and if I ever find out who he is....the safest" can be taken as threats of violence, right? Yes, there are insults on both sites, but from my point of view there are far more insulting comments made on this site than CL, which when considering the traffic the two sites attract, is quite the achievement, as an example I'd guess around 50% of Royston's posts are insulting. You allow a member to mockingly use a picture on BH as his avatar. If someone decided to use a picture of you on a forum, I assume you'd quite rightly be pissed off. Ben Hayes deserves to be mockedl
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Post by greeniejunior on Mar 1, 2015 13:17:24 GMT
I don't worry myself about wankers like him who never watch us play because of his career as a Lady Boy over in China. I could destroy the prick on here if I wanted to but he just isn't worth it. China is the best place for him....and if I ever find out who he is....the safest. Funny how all these Charlton Life hard men pipe up once I'm back in North Wales!! Hahaha wtf.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 13:22:28 GMT
God this thread is the very worst of ITTV. Started a whole thread just to have a go at another forum, descending into insults and threats.
I thought things had turned a corner on here. Sigh.
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Post by reamsofverse on Mar 1, 2015 13:23:45 GMT
Stuart it was a tongue in cheek comment sarcastic if you like.
Come on surely anybody can see that me saying 'If ever I find out who he is (in a Country the size of China)' was a gimmick at the label some people give me.
I could have made it more obvious but had just walked through the door after getting home. I wanted to read everybody's thoughts on the game and to enjoy the positivity that I thought surely must come after a performance and a result like that but the first thing I saw was this thread and reacted.
I accept that what you said was a throw away comment but it escalated and out came the same old morons over there with the more personal stuff that got my goat up especially after the enjoyable day that I had.
You may have seen it as a harmless comment but it was still the first punch thrown so to speak so what followed was my reaction.
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Post by sok on Mar 1, 2015 13:25:48 GMT
You must realise how comments like "China is the best place for him....and if I ever find out who he is....the safest" can be taken as threats of violence, right? Yes, there are insults on both sites, but from my point of view there are far more insulting comments made on this site than CL, which when considering the traffic the two sites attract, is quite the achievement, as an example I'd guess around 50% of Royston's posts are insulting. You allow a member to mockingly use a picture on BH as his avatar. If someone decided to use a picture of you on a forum, I assume you'd quite rightly be pissed off. Ben Hayes deserves to be mockedl Why?
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Post by sok on Mar 1, 2015 13:28:57 GMT
Stuart it was a tongue in cheek comment sarcastic if you like. Come on surely anybody can see that me saying 'If ever I find out who he is (in a Country the size of China)' was a gimmick at the label some people give me. I could have made it more obvious but had just walked through the door after getting home. I wanted to read everybody's thoughts on the game and to enjoy the positivity that I thought surely must come after a performance and a result like that but the first thing I saw was this thread and reacted. I accept that what you said was a throw away comment but it escalated and out came the same old morons over there with the more personal stuff that got my goat up especially after the enjoyable day that I had. You may have seen it as a harmless comment but it was still the first punch thrown so to speak so what followed was my reaction. Kunming is pretty small and I'm quite the celeb around these parts ;-) As for the rest of the post, let's just draw a line under it here, we're both Charlton after all. There's plenty of morons in the world, neither of us need to continue to act like one.
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Post by reamsofverse on Mar 1, 2015 13:52:58 GMT
Fair enough Stuart let's move on, Charlton are in a good place at the moment so we should enjoy rather than get distracted by other things.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 13:54:12 GMT
Riko, you really aren't joining in are you. This is the forum that takes the piss out of anything that moves, but it also takes the piss out of itself. I've seen personal feuds run for years on CL, but here we thrash it out, even meet up, start another argument, forgive...and so the cycle goes on.
You either get it or you don't.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 14:08:57 GMT
You must realise how comments like "China is the best place for him....and if I ever find out who he is....the safest" can be taken as threats of violence, right? Yes, there are insults on both sites, but from my point of view there are far more insulting comments made on this site than CL, which when considering the traffic the two sites attract, is quite the achievement, as an example I'd guess around 50% of Royston's posts are insulting. You allow a member to mockingly use a picture on BH as his avatar. If someone decided to use a picture of you on a forum, I assume you'd quite rightly be pissed off. Hypocrite.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 14:22:48 GMT
Riko, you really aren't joining in are you. This is the forum that takes the piss out of anything that moves, but it also takes the piss out of itself. I've seen personal feuds run for years on CL, but here we thrash it out, even meet up, start another argument, forgive...and so the cycle goes on. You either get it or you don't. No, I don't get it. Because what you're essentially saying is that this forum only exists because another does. It only exists because there are people that individuals don't like. Don't you think that would be a bit sad if it were true? And frankly, I always find taking the piss out of people is only healthy if it's mutual (e.g. me and you), positively unhealthy if it's not (here and Ben Hayes), terminal if it's just keyboard warriors giving it the large one (I'll let you make your own mind up on that one).
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 14:25:05 GMT
Riko, you really aren't joining in are you. This is the forum that takes the piss out of anything that moves, but it also takes the piss out of itself. I've seen personal feuds run for years on CL, but here we thrash it out, even meet up, start another argument, forgive...and so the cycle goes on. You either get it or you don't. You genuinely believe this place is some sort of hippy utopia don't you? You either need to read some of the comments a bit better or lay off the weed mate.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 14:36:03 GMT
Riko, you really aren't joining in are you. This is the forum that takes the piss out of anything that moves, but it also takes the piss out of itself. I've seen personal feuds run for years on CL, but here we thrash it out, even meet up, start another argument, forgive...and so the cycle goes on. You either get it or you don't. You genuinely believe this place is some sort of hippy utopia don't you? You either need to read some of the comments a bit better or lay off the weed mate. Aha, so you really do believe I'm an ageing hippie...well there's a start to a beautiful friendship. I have this dream of us meeting in the Lib, we run to each other in slow motion, embrace and feel the forgiveness. We can smoke a fat one in the North upper bogs if your'e up for it. Peace & love my little offy friend xxxxx
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 14:46:17 GMT
Riko, you really aren't joining in are you. This is the forum that takes the piss out of anything that moves, but it also takes the piss out of itself. I've seen personal feuds run for years on CL, but here we thrash it out, even meet up, start another argument, forgive...and so the cycle goes on. You either get it or you don't. No, I don't get it. Because what you're essentially saying is that this forum only exists because another does. It only exists because there are people that individuals don't like. Don't you think that would be a bit sad if it were true? And frankly, I always find taking the piss out of people is only healthy if it's mutual (e.g. me and you), positively unhealthy if it's not (here and Ben Hayes), terminal if it's just keyboard warriors giving it the large one (I'll let you make your own mind up on that one). There are very few keyboard warriors, it's a perception that's all. If I were on CL I'd be a dumbed down version of me, because it has rules and hierachy that I don't have to deal with when talking to people face to face. I think your'e an ok guy Rich, but you really do worry too much about others comments on a free speech forum that you don't pay for. ps. Yes, this forum does exist because of CL.
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Post by reamsofverse on Mar 1, 2015 14:59:47 GMT
Rik, I really prefer not to litter or stain this forum with diarrhea but please have a read of the link below and give me one good reason why I or we should not be able to defend ourselves? I gave my assessment of tony Watt when he signed for us purely based on his attitude and performances for Standard Liege. After his performance yesterday Charlton fans have reminded me of what I said which I have no problem with because I am pleased that he is showing us that he is a different animal on British shores and that can only be a good thing for us. However I draw the line at personal insults especially when it from the minority scum element of CL. There are half a dozen pricks on there who are as cowardly as they come because they just won't come anywhere near me on a match day choosing instead to mouth off from 200 miles away on an internet forum. The selective reading and digging out of this forum really gets on my tits sometimes....If people want to act like wimps when challenged I suggest they don't dish it out in the first place. While I have been writing this another cretin CharltonByBlood has come up with: Reams is one of the biggest "put your own word here " you'll ever come acrossNow the problem with that of course is the dull bastard has never come across me just like the rest of them so you can see where I'm coming from when I say it';s not radical people you are dealing with here, some of them really are thick! forum.charltonlife.com/discussion/66736/charlton-vs-huddersfield-feb-15-post-match-views
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Post by reamsofverse on Mar 1, 2015 15:17:55 GMT
This forum does not exist because of CL at all but it works because of it.
CL is more of a community forum, one that I am grateful not to be a part of. Here it's all about the football and the truth is spoken, people tell it as they see it, there are no scripts like there are on CL, and you are not told what to think and told what to say either.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 17:28:44 GMT
I'm not going to go defending CL or reading that link - 9 pages of it! I understand if you're being digged out you'd want to respond, but either you're for free speech or you're not. If people on another forum "tell it as they see it" then that includes, sometimes, digging you out.
I do understand you can be a bit of a target at times, but seriously if they weren't getting the response they'd get bored quick enough.
I have no time for keyboard warriors, CL, here or elsewhere. I don't mind a bit of banter - I've said it before though, I just find the anti-CL, anti-Hayes, anti-Powell stuff at best dull.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 17:43:39 GMT
It's really sad. This thread needs to be deleted the comments in here are disgusting and it's an embarrassment to this forum. There's another thread on CL that asked about this forum and myself and Rik both said stuff about freedom of speech etc. usually I would be jumping in and defending you reams saying you're alright really and you know your stuff blah blah blah. But with your behaviour on this thread it would be embarrassing to attempt to. This forum is all about free speech but yet you hypocritically ban iainment for questioning the motives of those that hate powell in unhealthy proportion, instead of defending it?? You then take a very small digging remark and blow it out of all context and start calling nasty nsmes and making threats. Not to mention collectively calling CL cretins amongst other things. Just because people have different opinions or dare to question your motives you get very aggressive and it not only leaves you open to backlash but also makes you partly deserve it, it's like you want to make enemies, but worse than that of people that share the same interest, fellow fans.
This forum became a lot better recently but all it took is the return of the man that you CHOSE to hate for NO reason to get the bitterness running rife again, that is sad. We won 3-0 infact we've had 3 3-0 victories out of four games, why can't you just be happy about that instead of being at bloody war all the time with people who are evidently on the same poxy side.??!!!! Rant over!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 17:57:18 GMT
Exceptional response. Well thought out and well articulated. I look forward to you being able to put multiple syllables into words cunt cunt
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 18:00:04 GMT
God this thread is the very worst of ITTV. Started a whole thread just to have a go at another forum, descending into insults and threats. I thought things had turned a corner on here. Sigh. piss off no mark .................. ;-)
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 18:04:35 GMT
Riko, you really aren't joining in are you. This is the forum that takes the piss out of anything that moves, but it also takes the piss out of itself. I've seen personal feuds run for years on CL, but here we thrash it out, even meet up, start another argument, forgive...and so the cycle goes on. You either get it or you don't. You genuinely believe this place is some sort of hippy utopia don't you? You either need to read some of the comments a bit better or lay off the weed mate. yet another constructive post from Offit2, again he fails completely to mention football or at least Charlton. You harp on about attacking other forums and abusive / threatening posts and in turn fail yourself at adding any value what so ever that relates to football matters. Why do you read this if it offends you up so much ?
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 18:05:54 GMT
It's really sad. This thread needs to be deleted the comments in here are disgusting and it's an embarrassment to this forum. There's another thread on CL that asked about this forum and myself and Rik both said stuff about freedom of speech etc. usually I would be jumping in and defending you reams saying you're alright really and you know your stuff blah blah blah. But with your behaviour on this thread it would be embarrassing to attempt to. This forum is all about free speech but yet you hypocritically ban iainment for questioning the motives of those that hate powell in unhealthy proportion, instead of defending it?? You then take a very small digging remark and blow it out of all context and start calling nasty nsmes and making threats. Not to mention collectively calling CL cretins amongst other things. Just because people have different opinions or dare to question your motives you get very aggressive and it not only leaves you open to backlash but also makes you partly deserve it, it's like you want to make enemies, but worse than that of people that share the same interest, fellow fans. This forum became a lot better recently but all it took is the return of the man that you CHOSE to hate for NO reason to get the bitterness running rife again, that is sad. We won 3-0 infact we've had 3 3-0 victories out of four games, why can't you just be happy about that instead of being at bloody war all the time with people who are evidently on the same poxy side.??!!!! Rant over! the quoted thread was started on CL. If that had not been posted then this would not exist , if you cant handle the fact there are people out there that post for a reaction and then when they get one cry victim, then quite frankly piss off.
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Post by reamsofverse on Mar 1, 2015 18:32:27 GMT
Sadie you have very selective reading and if anybody is embarrassing it's you because all you do is defend CL and turn a blind eye to what ever gets said on there about me and this forum.
All you do is concentrate on the reaction rather than the offending opening posts, how would you like to be called a twat on a regular basis......That I'm afraid is what you call a typical lifer.
Perhaps you should go back there and stay there because I really do prefer not to have biased people on here who think their chums can do no wrong.
iainment accused this forum of being racist towards Chris Powell because of the colour of his skin which is unacceptable.
Your post above is a joke because you have clearly written it with your CL cap on.
I came home from the game yesterday in a good mood, I logged on here and was pointed in the direction of a thread on CL where I was being abused so obviously my mood changed but obviously you don't know that because you have not bothered to find out what has kicked it off this time so please don't sit there giving me a lecture when on this occasion I am not the cause. Last night was the first time I had been on forums all day so it was totally unprovoked.
I don't have enemies obviously because if they were they would turn up in person and not hide behind a keyboard.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 18:42:51 GMT
You are missing the point @sadiejane1981
We had just won 3-0,yet at least 4 posters including Stu''s Coming and Obese Addick were straight on the CL match thread to dig out Reams about Tony Watt. Very odd behaviour.
Stu''s Coming then admits he "heard" Watt was good as...cough....he doesn't get to many games.
Priceless Anorak behaviour.
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Post by reamsofverse on Mar 1, 2015 18:58:21 GMT
To be fair Royston at least Stuart had the decency to come on here and discuss it and we drew a line, it's the other morons I have an issue with, those that crossed the line.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 19:31:01 GMT
Maybe it's time to close this thread, in this world we can't ever control the behaviour of others and how we react to negative stimuli is at the mercy of each individual. Whoever was proven right or wrong has obviously been identified and nobody can do anymore than admit they were wrong and even consider alternatives next time. This has been done by a few in this situation and it's time we all pulled together and embraced the positivity of the team at the moment and enjoy the football on show... Many seemed to join together when they felt things were heading in the wrong direction so let's do the same when results/performances are on the up..
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Post by reamsofverse on Mar 1, 2015 19:35:49 GMT
Agreed.
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